There is an old Chinese proverb which runs some thing like this: “Anybody can criticize, but it takes a noble soul to appreciate."
Often our first judgment is an adverse criticism of a person, situation, or condition concerning which we are really blind. Charity is needed if we are to help those about us. Remember, there is always a background and a past, however striking the foreground and the present may be. Who knows how many have suffered a severe jostling of life’s seasons when they have bravely faced the storm which blew some months clean off life’s calendar pad? Some seem to have absolutely lost their spring season and yet are able to adjust themselves wonderfully to life and people with no self-pity and but little sympathy from understanding hearts. They may never have been privileged what nature might count the proper arrangement of seasons, and yet a hidden grace and strength have been theirs to look the world in the face, and even sing. We need song and music to help us along the dusty road. Often I think the music of such hearts has a depth and meaning (shall I say tone-quality?) lacking in those who have passed smoothly and blithely through each season, correctly and in perfect order. Sacrifice mellows the tone and gives it a rich, deep, understanding quality.